Love may not be enough

Their spontaneous choices bring chaos not only in their own environment but also for many others who care for them.

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So often I see unhappy situations involving the worldview that because you love somebody you will need to do anything you can to make that individual’s life easier – even when they are not eager to make great choices. The end result is that you pay a cost and the other person never has chance to learn because there simply are no consequences for them.

I remember the day he said “When you’re working harder than your customer, you’re working too hard”.

Are you involved in:

4. Experiencing neglect once the person does not follow through on their promises?

Responding to manipulation or needs from somebody who thinks you’re the “outstanding help”?

Trusting the other person will start thinking and behaving appropriately even when they’ve never done this consistently?

Cleaning up cluttered situations for somebody else over and over again?

Ignoring your long-term needs and desires in sacrifice for a person’s short-term catastrophe?

Losing sleep and feeling obsessed with things which you can’t change?

Well, love isn’t enough! We can not change other individuals. Maybe your activities done in the spirit of love are now preventing them from confronting the scenarios which will lead them to adulthood. You may love them but you will need to understand clearly where you stop and they start.

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